Monday, 08 February 2010
Material Witnesses
By Ann Berger
Helen and Velma, two oldest of us nine sisters, a year apart in age, started first grade on the same day, took piano lessons together and usually dressed alike. Well ordered lives it seemed - until a commotion stirred on our Minnesota farm the day Heinie Simpson, our mailman, delivered their first ready-made dresses from Montgomery Ward. Our favorite sight each day was seeing Heinie’s sedan pull up to our mailbox with his left-pointer finger giving us his tip-of-the-hat wave.
Seeing that package atop the mailbox sent us down the driveway to hurry the package back up to the dining room table where Helen and Velma reverently tore at strings and wrappers. We little kids gawked and giggled. Helen and Velma held the dresses against themselves, then shot into the bedroom to try them on, re-appearing for a fashion show.
Giggling turned to oohing and aahing as we smoothed our hands across the fabric. These store-bought dresses with yellow and brown diamond-shaped designs and puffed sleeves dominated our conversation for days.
Until that day in the early 1930s, except for shoes and stockings, every stitch we girls wore - dresses, coats, snowsuits, blouses, jumpers, skirts, nighties, flannel pajamas, as well as panties, bloomers, petticoats, vests and camisoles (these sometimes from 100-poundsugar or flour sacks with Gold Medal bleached out) - took shape under Mother’s influence at her New Home sewing machine. Who knew, when as a teenager studying fashion design and pattern making across the state line in Wisconsin, she would someday have nine daughters to practice her design and sewing skills until several months before her death at age 75?
We children had made a game of window shopping for our favorite styles as we took turns paging through Sears and Roebuck, Montgomery Ward or Spiegel catalogs confident that Mother could study the pictures of our choices and cut each pattern out of newspaper or butcher paper. She flung fabric from store-bought bolts across the dining room table already extended with extra leaves to accommodate our ever expanding family, including Grandpa G. plus a hired man and sometimes a hired girl.
Often the choice of fabric was men’s old worn suits with seams ripped with a razor blade, washed and hung to dry on the clothesline. Wielding those razor blades and avoiding unintended manicures or leaving spots of blood on the fabric was our least favorite chore.
Reusable sections of the men’s Sunday suits materialized into girls’ skirts, jumpers, jerkins and coats. Once I was thrilled to have the luxury of choosing a color other than brown or black for my coat lining. I had no clue where that stray piece of recycled red material came from and didn’t care. O happy breezes that made my coat flap open with a red flash for the world to see.
One by one we were called in for measuring and fittings during which I usually heard, “Stand still, don’t be such a flibbertygibbet.” She’d let us choose: “What kind of buttons would you like? How about a bit of trim? Piping? Bias tape? Smocking? Lace?” She could even tat the lace.”
Her sewing machine was moved away from the wall so we could circle and witness her hands guide the fabric under the jumping-bean action of the needle, barely missing her fingers, as her feet rocked at break-neck speed on the treadle. No wonder she had trim ankles.
The magic of her nimble hands turning and twisting the fabric until a finished garment materialized mesmerized us as we subliminally absorbed impromptu lessons on how to sew bust darts, tucks, hems, gussets, edge stitching to the under, bound button holes...
She repeated over and over, then again for good measure, her mantra, “Sleeve right, dress wrong, sleeve right, dress wrong” which we soon mumbled in whispers or in sing-song each time one of us tackled sewing a dress, blouse or jacket. If ever you attempt to put sleeves in a garment without remembering “sleeve right, dress wrong,” be prepared to hear “Girl, girl, even as you sew, so shall you rip."
Afterword: How these lessons materialized into Helen and Velma designing and sewing their own wedding gowns (to become hand-me-downs, of course) is another story, and kept the family in stitches celebrating Helen and Velma's 90th birthdays in 2008 and 2009.
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Nearly every morning, while having a cup of coffee, I tune into Elder Storytelling Place for an episode of nostalgia. I'm never disappointed. Wonderful story, Ann, and the ending is satisfying, knowing Helen and Velma lived long, productive lives.
Posted by: Madonna Christensen | Monday, 08 February 2010 at 05:08 AM
This column is a treasure, I felt like I could hear you all giggling..don't you think now that those "moms" were really Artists? My friend Sandy had a Mom like yours, and I remembered her telling us to stay still for a sec while she measured..she too said flibbety-jibbett..too lazy to run back and check your spelling..wonderful, wonderful writing..Mary Follett Bklyn, NY
Posted by: mary follett | Monday, 08 February 2010 at 06:09 AM
I well remember dresses made out of flour sacks. One company went so far as to put the flower in print sacks so there was no need to bleach the label out. Of course, the pattern was a dead give-away that the dress was home made.
A store bought dress was a splurge that put a dent in most budgets.
Thanks for the memories.
Posted by: Darlene | Monday, 08 February 2010 at 07:10 AM
I well remember dresses made out of flour sacks. One company went so far as to put the flower in print sacks so there was no need to bleach the label out. Of course, the pattern was a dead give-away that the dress was homemade.
A 'store-bought' dress was a splurge that put a dent in most budgets.
Thanks for the memories.
Posted by: Darlene | Monday, 08 February 2010 at 07:11 AM
I well remember dresses made out of flour sacks. One company went so far as to put the flower in print sacks so there was no need to bleach the label out. Of course, the pattern was a dead give-away that the dress was homemade.
A 'store-bought' dress was a splurge that put a dent in most budgets.
Thanks for the memories.
Posted by: Darlene | Monday, 08 February 2010 at 07:12 AM
Hi Ann! I can hear your voice as I read. This is a wonderful story, just wonderful. I am honored to have you for a friend. I never tired of hearing about you and your sisters and what you did when you were growing up. Your mother WAS an artist.
Posted by: Judy Watten | Monday, 08 February 2010 at 09:40 AM
My mother also sewed for my sister and me. Everything was recycled, yes even the feed sacks. Then the clothes were patched until they fell apart. Yes, I think those moms were very creative. Thank you Ann for bring those days alive again. Beautiful story.
Posted by: Mary B Summerlin | Monday, 08 February 2010 at 05:35 PM
Ann,
Again your wonderful memories beautifully recreated for others to remember a bygone era.
I remember my mother sewing dresses for my sister (18 months older) and me during the depression years on her Singer sewing machine. Once she created Halloween costumes for us out of crepe paper, no easy task!
Posted by: Ruth | Monday, 08 February 2010 at 07:50 PM
Ruth, I still have pictures of some of the crepe paper outfits! One year my sister & I rode in the annual Halloween parade in a neighbor's pony cart with his daughters--all 4 girls resplendent in sunflower costumes made by my mother from crepe paper.
Posted by: Lyn Burnstine | Monday, 08 February 2010 at 08:24 PM