[EDITORIAL NOTE: Last week, a reporter at Business Insider interviewed me about old and older workers dropping out of the workforce because no one will hire them. The story is titled, BABY BOOMERS: Yeah, We’re Leaving The Labor Force Alright — Because We Can't Get Back In It and you can read it here.]
Considering the approach of my 21st birthday - the date of official adulthood in the early 1960s - I anticipated that upon waking that morning I would have the answers to all of life's important questions.
Well, you know I was disappointed. Deeply so. Wisdom (for that is what I was counting on) is hard-earned over many years of living and in my case, has not arrived yet in the half century since that youthful letdown.
Not that I think it matters. I mean, come on: our society cares a whole lot more – (snark warning) about the pretense of youth than wisdom so what good would it be anyway in contemporary America.
Nevertheless, I hope and it satisfies me to keep nearby and ponder from time to time what some wise old souls from times past have had to say about growing old. Just a handful of them for you today.
Gay Gaer Luce:
”A person of sixty can grow as much as a child of six. The later years are a time for self-development, emancipation, a spiritual growth.”
”If we face now the reality, at 63 or 70, 75, 80, or 90, that we will indeed, sooner or later, die, then the only big question is how are we going to live the years we have left, however many or few they be?
“What adventures can we now set out on to make sure we'll be alive when we die? Can age itself be such an adventure?
Simone de Beauvoir:
”A few years more or less matters little when set against the freedom and peace of mind one achieves the moment one stops running away from death.”
Victor Hugo: ”When grace combines with wrinkles, it is admirable. There is an indescribably light of dawn about intensely happy old age...The young man is handsome, but the old, superb.”
”In spite of illness, in spite even of the archenemy, sorrow, one can remain alive long past the usual date of disintegration if one is unafraid of change, insatiable in intellectual curiosity, interested in big things, and happy in small ways.”
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