Things I Do Differently Now That I'm Old
ELDER MUSIC: The Voice is the Thing



Reader Tom Delmore sent this video of the touching relationship between an old man at the end of his life and his grandson. Simple and beautiful. (In Swedish with subtitles.)


Last Monday, The Daily Show took on those Texas lunatics – including way too many elected officials – who believe a U.S military training exercise in their state this summer is a cover for instituting martial law.

Remember last week when the story about a crazy deer crossing lady was headlined, “They walk among us and they vote?” Just apply that to these people and enjoy Jon Stewart skewering them. Be sure to stick around for the last line.


Jon Stewart is not the only legend leaving late night television soon. After 33 years, David Letterman is bowing out. The notoriously interview-shy Late Night host talked to Rolling Stone.

Here's something you probably didn't know:

”Three days a week, Letterman wakes up in his downtown Manhattan loft at 6 a.m., drives to his offices at 53rd and Broadway and immediately goes back to bed.

“He used to commute at a more normal hour, but at some point he decided he hated traffic so much that he'd rather sleep in segments than spend an extra 15 minutes in rush hour. Now he gets to his 12th-floor suite around 6:30, sleeps for three more hours, then gets up to start his day, 'refreshed and ready to go.'"

It's a long interview about the show, about quitting after 33 years, about his young son and what he'll do with himself now.

In reality, Letterman is a better interviewer than interviewee. But his retirement marks the passing of an era and should be noted - particularly, if like me, you've produced a zillion TV interviews in your life.

You can read the whole thing at Rolling Stone. Letterman's last show will be broadcast on this Wednesday 20 May. Stephen Colbert takes over that time slot on CBS-TV on Tuesday 8 September.


I'm not too keen on the accompanying music within this video but it is fantastic to see how the Blue Angels work from the inside.

If you like that, there are more Blue Angels videos at YouTube – just search “blue angels”


That's the name of a new series on the PBS Newshour website from editorial cartoonist, Jack Ohman.

“When editorial cartoonist Jack Ohman sat down to illustrate his father’s final years,” writes someone unnamed at the website, “he did not want to sugar-coat his own experiences providing four years of long term care. Otherwise, the story would not have been worth telling, he explained...

“It was difficult, but he said he acted with a sense of duty.

“'He took care of me, and we had our issues, but I felt he was owed a dignified life, and I wanted to help him,' Ohman said.”

Here are two of the panels from Part 1.



You can see all of Part 1 here where you can also sign up to be notified as Parts 2-4 are published over the next several months. (Hat tip to Tom Delmore)


Last week, First Lady Michelle Obama gave a powerful, even soaring commencement speech at Tuskegee University in Alabama. I would wager no other first lady has been this outspoken and strong. Predictably, the right wing punditry was outraged.

Never mind about that. Just watch this amazing woman tell it like it is to the 2015 graduating class.


Really. They did that. The Republican majority on the House Appropriations Committee.

In fewer than 24 hours after the terrible train derailment in Pennsylvania took eight lives this week, they snatched more than a quarter of a billion dollars from Amtrak. You can read about it here and here.

And you can check to see if your House representative was on that list here.


John Oliver keeps telling people who ask that he is not a journalist, not an investigative reporter. Maybe he thinks so because he tells such funny jokes while exposing malfeasance, corruption, fraud, crime, exploitation, misrepresentation along with plain old stupidity.

And he does it thoroughly, competently and even when it's not headline news.

This week Oliver took on paid family leave and you will be shocked at the position the U.S. holds in the world on this subject.


From Darlene Costner. I am charmed by polar bear video while simultaneously being frightened and sad for them as the polar ice continues to melt.

Interesting Stuff is a weekly listing of short takes and links to web items that have caught my attention; some related to aging and some not, some useful and others just for fun.

You are all encouraged to submit items for inclusion. Just click “Contact” in the upper left corner of any Time Goes By page to send them. I'm sorry that I won't have time to acknowledge receipt and there is no guarantee of publication. But when I do include them, you will be credited and I will link to your blog IF you include the name of the blog and its URL.


Well darn - the owner took down the commencement speech by Michelle Obama. I guess they were afraid her powerful speech might offend the ignorant dolts who are lambasting her. I am off to see if You Tube might have it.

The video showing the beautiful relationship between a boy and his grandfather made me cry.

Thanks for the tip about the Jack Ohman series. I am sharing that on Facebook as I have many friends who are currently dealing with aging parents. I have already been through the experience.

I have only heard and seen bits and pieces of Michelle Obama's speech, but each of them has made me cheer for her. She is a terrific first lady and an inspiration to young people.


I live in Texas, and can't seem to escape. Just wanted you to know we're not all like that!

"Can you tell it like it is, what have you got to lose"--Crosby, Stills, and Nash lyrics--come to mind with the First Lady's speech.

I doubt there has ever been such a courageous act by a First Lady.... I have admired and respected her from the get-go—standing firm to what she knows, not from knowledge gained through formal education, but from the inside out of her very existence. What a remarkably, honest and encouraging speech.

I am not a person easily impressed. Words are cheap, as the saying goes. Lives lived from the heart with the honesty Michelle Obama expresses
is (never have used this word and it is so over used,much like the word love)--but, this is
truly AWESOME.

And that is a sad commentary on our society. We cover the harsh reality of truth with "politeness, niceness, civility. This speech brought the harsh reality of truth to light without any impoliteness and with civility.

There are nuts everywhere not just right here in my neighborhood. I think it's fear of any change from what has always been in the past. Science rattles their religious beliefs as do other cultures and non Christian religions. It's all based on fear and the far right knows just how to push their buttons and it becomes, literally, a vicious circle

The First Lady's speech was inspiring. If any readers skipped hitting that link, you missed an important experience.

Thanks for letting me know that the link to Michelle Obama's speech now works. It was a great speech and it needed to be said.

I followed it up with Hannity's rabid rant; or as much as I could take. Michelle is a class act; Hannity is a stupid bully.

Wow, Ronni, you could call this post "Pulling the Heartstrings!"

From the Swedish family to Michelle Obama to Ohman to the fabulous polar bears and then the leave-taking of Jon Stewart! Thought I'd laugh til I cried... All good...

Excellent speech by Mrs. Obama! Great collection again for Interesting Stuff.

I shared Saturday's Interesting Things - specifically Michelle Obama's speech - with some friends. One of them read your comment, Ronni, namely that you would wager that no other First Lady has been so outspoken and strong.
My friend commented -- and Eleanor Roosevelt? I agree--she was stunning in so many ways, as is Michelle Obama.

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